Our Heavenly Father used Barbara Kohler to bring much needed healing and deliverance in our lives. In 38 years of marriage, our week with Barbara was one of the most impactful weeks of our life. We cannot thank our Father enough for this invaluable investment into our lives. Thank you for YOU and your ministry!
The Kohler Group, PLLC · Huntersville, NC
Your Marriage
Can Be Saved.
But not with another hour of weekly counseling.
The 5-Day Marriage Intensive is for couples who are done drifting, done fighting, and ready — truly ready — to do something transformative. For couples who believe their marriage is worth everything it takes.
"What God has joined together, let no man separate."Matthew 19:6 · NASB
Real Client Testimonials
Stories of Transformation
Words from couples who chose to do the hard, beautiful work. To protect their privacy, all identifying details have been removed.
Our marriage was struggling for years. The intensive was the turning point we needed. Barbara and her team helped us rediscover what brought us together and gave us practical tools to rebuild.
Working with Barbara Kohler has been one of the most impactful investments we've made in our marriage. She has a unique ability to create a space where both people feel heard, understood, and supported—without judgment.
Before working with Barbara, my wife and I often found ourselves missing each other in communication. We cared deeply, but we weren't always expressing our needs in a way the other could truly understand. Barbara helped us slow down, listen with intention, and communicate clearly and respectfully. She gave us practical tools that we now use every day, not just in difficult conversations, but in how we show up for each other overall.
What stands out most is how she helped us shift from reacting to truly understanding one another. That change alone has made a lasting difference in the strength and connection of our relationship.
I can honestly say that Barbara played a major role in improving our marriage. We're more aligned, more connected, and better equipped to handle whatever comes our way. I would highly recommend her to any couple looking to grow and strengthen their relationship.
In our life, there’s one thing that’s a known fact… Jesus and Barabra Kohler have saved our marriage! Both my husband and I brought severe trauma (SRA, abandonment and attachment trauma) and PTSD from childhood into our marriage, which led to many trials and much hurt. However, thanks to our individual work with Barabra and the marriage intensives we have done, our marriage is stronger than ever. We went from turning against each other at every turn and constant abandonment, to turning toward each other and choosing to grow and heal together. We went from two broken and traumatized people trying to love each other, to truly being “one” and fulfilling the call of God on our lives. The structure of the marriage intensive was so helpful because we both got to do individual work while we were there, which increased the effectiveness of the time we had in session together. Barbara taught us so much helpful information as we went through the intensive, which helped equip us to be successful as we went home and continued on in our healing process. Also, the work in the Courts of Heaven that we did with Barbara has completely changed our life! The effectiveness of The Courts is undeniable and we have witnessed it over and over again! Barbara is truly led by The Lord, and the amount of honor and gratitude we have for her cannot be adequately explained in words. We truly went from hopeless to healing thanks to The Lord and Barbara Kohler!
Our relationship has become much closer and our communication has strengthened. I can truly say that these sessions have saved our marriage. The freedom I have encountered after doing work with Barbra and her staff is surreal! The way they incorporate healing as well as spiritual work is incredible. The Kohler Group is top notch and I would highly recommend. My only regret is that I did not start my healing journey sooner with them!
Why This Works
This Is Not Typical Marriage Therapy.
This Is Transformation.
Most couples have tried counseling. Many have worked with several counselors. What they haven't experienced is a clinical process that reaches the root — spiritually, neurologically, and emotionally — in concentrated, consecutive days of focused work.
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Five Consecutive Days of Focused Work
Weekly 50-minute sessions only go so far. Real change takes sustained time. Five uninterrupted days build the momentum and depth that months of weekly sessions rarely reach.
02
Multiple Modalities Working Together
Re-Decision Therapy, EMDR, HeartSync, Judicial Prayer, and TRET work together to address your marriage at every level — the early decisions you made about yourself, the lies and trauma stored in your mind and body, and the spiritual fragmentation that talk therapy alone can't touch.
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Faith-Integrated & Clinically Grounded
Barbara holds a Master's degree in Rehabilitation Counseling Studies which looks at the client holistically. Barbara has been a counselor since 1995 and has been licensed as an LCMHC (Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor) since 2002, and is an ordained minister under her local church, Hope Covenant Church, Huntersville, NC. She brings 30 years of clinical excellence and the power of Christ-centered prayer into the same room — because healing requires a multidimensional approach.
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You Work on the Root, Not Just the Symptoms
Most couples fight about money, kids, and sex. While all of those are important, they are symptoms of deeper issues related to your worth, your safety, and what love looks like — formed long before you ever met. Relational wounding can create destructive habit patterns in your marriage and drive a wedge between you and your spouse.
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100% Client Satisfaction Reported
Surveyed clients report being completely satisfied with their Marriage Intensive experience. 100% said they would recommend it to others.
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Couples Travel From Across the Country
Couples travel from across the Carolinas and the entire United States to work with Barbara. This isn't a service for locals only — Barbara has clients that have traveled the west coast, east coast, and as far away as Hawaii. Barbara has worked hard to learn her craft and her clients value her skill and spirituality.
For privacy, photos shown are not actual clients.
Who This Is For
You May Be Ready
If This Is You
Couples arrive at the Marriage Intensive from different places. What they share is a willingness to stop surviving and start truly living together.
- You've been to counseling before — maybe multiple counselors — and you're still in the same place.
- You've experienced betrayal, affair, or a devastating rupture you don't know how to heal.
- You're on a slow drift and you recognize it — and you're ready to stop.
- Your faith matters to you, and you want a counselor who takes that seriously — not just tolerates it.
- You're willing to come to Huntersville, NC (CLT Airport) for five days and invest fully in the process.
- You sense there's a depth of connection and freedom you haven't reached — and you want it.
- You want to have a biblical marriage where you both experience walking as heirs together of the grace of life (1 Peter 3:7).
18+
Years of Clinical Experience Working with Couples
"I have walked alongside couples carrying some of the heaviest things imaginable — betrayal, generational trauma, years of disconnection. And I have watched God move in those marriages in ways that were, honestly, remarkable."
30+
Years of Experience
Working in the Counseling Field, Including Business Executives, Entrepreneurs, and the Families Who Enable Them to Be Successful
100%
Client Satisfaction Rate
Post-intensive surveys show every respondent said the program met their goals and that they would recommend it to others.
Your Guide
Barbara Kohler
MS CRC LCMHC NCC Licensed Since 2002 Ordained Minister
Barbara Kohler is the Founder and CEO of The Kohler Group, PLLC — a faith-integrated Christian psychotherapy practice located in Huntersville, NC, serving the greater Charlotte and Lake Norman area, with in person and telehealth across North and South Carolina.
She has been a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor since 2002 and holds National Certified Counselor credentials since 2009. She is also an ordained minister — a distinction that shapes every aspect of how she works with couples.
Barbara uses a multidimensional approach in working with individuals and couples. She integrates several powerful, effective modalities including EMDR, Re-Decision Therapy, HeartSync, Judicial Prayer, and TRET. Her approach addresses marriages at the root of each individual's life, to enable the couple to set aside toxic blaming and deal with spiritual fractures that have never been fully healed. Visit thekohlergroup.net
Your Investment
What It Costs to
Save Your Marriage
Consider what divorce costs — financially, emotionally, and spiritually — for the whole family. The Marriage Intensive is not inexpensive. But for couples who are serious, it is one of the most significant investments they will ever make.
$15,000
Five Consecutive Days
Includes All Assessments, Educational Materials, and Personality Survey
Post Intensive Coaching Package Available for Purchase
(Travel and Lodging Is at Your Own Expense)
Five full clinical daysPre-intensive consultationRe-Decision TherapyEMDRHeartSyncJudicial PrayerTRETFaith-integrated prayerPost-intensive planning